I met Zach while choking on a Vietnamese Spring Roll at Lemon Grass, in University Heights. I was on a blind date with a man named William, my first date after my divorce to Hank.
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Valentin Flauraud
Art in the Age of Authenticity
I ask the theatre to do what any art form might--to engage my mind or my heart in a fearless and powerful way. And, because theatre as a medium hinges on immediate contributions by fellow humans, because the energy shared between those onstage and off is unique to each performance, when I go to the theatre I am hopeful that what I see will touch both heart and mind; that it will not just pull me out of my own experience but enrich it, challenge it, grant it new, glimmering, or unexpected dimension.
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Victoria Dawe, courtesy of Skirt Club
Interview With Geneviève LeJeune, Founder of Skirt Club
Skirt Club is an underground community for girls who play with girls. It was set up in 2014 by Geneviève LeJeune, who had attended "play parties" with a male ex. She soon realized she was doing things for his pleasure, not her own. So she decided to make Skirt Club for ladies only. It hosts a private members network for the curious kind; both in mind and sexuality. Skirt Club promotes glamour; free-flowing champagne, burlesque performers and…much more. Luna Luna spoke with founder Geneviève LeJeune in anticipation of Skirt Club’s upcoming launch party on February 4 in New York City.
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Stephani Scutari
Artist Lisa Levy Was Humbly Present At Christopher Stout Gallery
Artist and comedian Lisa Levy threw off her robe and sat naked on the porcelain throne placed in the center of Christopher Stout Gallery. You heard that right. In her performance art piece The Artist is Humbly Present, Levy mocked the art world, pretension, and herself. During the performance, viewers were invited to sit opposite Levy on a facing toilet and interact with her in any way, other than touching her. If you’re familiar with Marina Ambramovic’s performance at MoMA, The Artist is Present, where viewers were invited to sit and face the artist in a chair, you’ll immediately understand the blatant reference.
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Andy Warhol
Violence As Violence: A Response to Zachary Schomburg’s “Poetry As Violence”
It wasn’t in my plan to start this article this way, but on thinking about the most important parts of Zachary Schomburg’s essay “Poetry As Violence,” I continue to hold in mind his idea that the trauma of violence is in the small details around the violence, and I remember the snippets of memories that occasionally come to me out of nowhere like moths in the night, and that, like moths, I try to bat away before they can land on me. The one that comes to mind first is a confession. It is a memory I’ve told almost no one and I’m telling you here not so you can experience violence, but so you can be humanized in your observance of someone else’s. March 9 (tomorrow, as I write this) marks the sixth anniversary of the day I, at sixteen, downed a bottle of aspirin and tried to go to sleep. What lingers of the violence isn’t the act of swallowing the chalky pills, or the burning in my stomach I couldn’t explain to you if I tried, it isn’t the activated charcoal I forced into my own body, not out of a desire to live but out of the embarrassment of being seen trying not to live.
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Barbie Twitter
Barbie Is Finally More Diverse And Realistic
Barbie is finally going to look more real, which I'm all about. Her unrealistic body type has often been a point of contention for many criticizers over the years. And really, who can blame them? Mattel just announced in TIME magazine that Barbie will now come in three new body shapes: "petite," "tall," and "curvy," which is great, but also problematic considering that's a gross oversimplification. She also has seven new skin tones, because you know, real people aren't all the same skin color.
Mattel, according to their website, wants to illustrate more feminist ideals:
"By introducing more variety into the line, Barbie is offering girls choices that are better reflective of the world they see today. The new 2016 Barbie Fashionistas collection includes 4 body types, 7 skin tones, 18 eye colors, 18 hairstyles, and countless on-trend fashions and accessories."
The new additions will be available for pre-order on Mattel's website. But it's still seen as a massive risk for the company (though, it's super sad we live in a world where being diverse is a risk), since young kids by age 6 are already conditioned to like a certain silhouette in their dolls, according to TIME. Evelyn Mazzocco, head of the Barbie brand, stated:
“I do all kinds of things for my kids that they don’t like or understand, from telling them to do their homework to eating their vegetables. This is very similar. It’s my responsibility to make sure that they have inclusivity in their lives even if it doesn’t register for them.”
Of course, the new curvy doll isn't necessarily that curvy--which some have already stated in the focus groups run by Mattel. One mom commented: “I wish that she were curvier." It's also important to note that while it's amazing Mattel is trying, women's bodies are shaped much differently than the ol'hourglass shape we idolize in the media. I don't have to tell you that women come in all shapes and sizes. Or don't all want to wear heels and miniskirts.
As a feminist who grew up playing with Barbie dolls, I'm all about changing the early ideas we plant into our children's minds (whether intentional or not), and educate our girls that bodies are beautiful no matter what shape or skin color they come in. But, I don't think offering three different body shapes is enough, either. Or seven skin colors. Is it really that hard for Barbie to sell customizable dolls? Or just have more options?
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Alex Stoddard
Poetry by Melissa Eleftherion
The ditch is a teen age girl
the girl is a ditch
all the little inserts
the pink gooey centers
what hardens inside
Man Ray
A Review of Thomas Fucaloro’s 'It Starts from the Belly and Blooms'
For me, It Starts from the Belly and Blooms is like having a conversation with myself–chaotic, messy, violent, aware, vulnerable, and scary. It’s a conversation you know the answers to but are too afraid to say. While the book is definitely am emotional journey not always easy getting through, it ends with beauty, with rebirth: “so I gave it a sound/a sunrise/a star.”
via Pitchfork
'Her': Feminism, Isolation, & Virtual Reality at Work
Yes, Her. Everyone I knew saw it–loved it, gushed about it, talked about it in a dream-like trance. To say the least, my interest was piqued–especially because I had read countless articles beforehand. I couldn’t help it, they were everywhere. In particular, one stood out where the author describes the film as essentially un-feminist, being that there isn’t a huge female presence. You could say I saw the film with the idea that women weren’t important, that they were conspicuously absent.
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LISTEN: This Femme Neo-Noir Playlist Is Exactly What You Need
To me, every song is a story, and every story I read or write has a soundtrack. The two mediums have always gone hand in hand for me. I've recently turned my focus on screen writing and I see every song play out as a scene in a story. Because of this, I made this femme neo-noir playlist.
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8 Women-Run Magazines We Read Everyday (& So Should You)
BY LISA MARIE BASILE
There are literally countless gorgeous, intelligent and necessary blogs/mags/collectives out there, and we hope to one day discover, read and feature all of them, but lo & behold, time is not on our side.
So for now, we present some of our favorite magazines out there, each run, edited or funded by women.
To get a sense of each magazine, we offer up a representative article and a personal note on why we're into them. But even that can't do them justice. Please do check out these sites. You will wake up a better human being for it.
Oh, and if you have suggestions for other magazines we should feature, please leave them in the comments!
The Establishment: We're a multimedia company run and funded by women that’s predicated on a simple, yet radical notion: the world is a better, more interesting place when everyone has a voice.
The Inevitability of Creative Jealousy
Note: The editors over at The Establishment are unapologetic, brave and consistently devoted to progressive voices. They're exemplary at publishing high-quality work rather than clickbait, which is always refreshing. Also, they're funny. We here haven't quite nailed that yet.
Brown Girl Magazine: Founded in 2008, Brown Girl Magazine, LLC is an online publication tailored and targeted to young South Asian women living in the diaspora.
What Happens When You Write About Dating in a Culture Where Relationships are Taboo
Note: This magazine is dedicated to their demographic by always publishing really smart + service-oriented content that pushes boundaries and inspires readers. Also, I worked with Kamini, their managing editor, once upon a time. Kamini is veritably amazing.
Witch Craft Mag: Founded in 2015, Witch Craft is a print magazine and micropress with the goal of publishing work that moves us to believe in magic again.
Card of the Week: The King of Pentacles
Note: The coolest thing about this magazine, aside from its wonderful editors Elle & Catch Business, is that it really does create a sense of peace, creativity, magic and dedication to aesthetic. The tarot articles, poetry and overall vibe is a dream. It's a safe little place on the internet that makes life better.
The Slutist: Slutist is a sex positive feminist collective that was founded by Kristen Korvette in 2013. Slutist aims to uncover and undress the intersections between sex, gender, sexuality and feminism in art, entertainment, and politics while breaking down binaries of style/substance, brains/beauty, masculine/feminine, and virgin/whore.
Great Moments in Historical Sluttery: Messalina, Excess and Disgrace in Imperial Rome
Note: Luna Luna's staff attended the Slutist Legacy of the Witch party in Brooklyn last year and we can tell you: these ladies are badass, radical, and smart as hell. We read their brilliance on the regular.
For Harriet: For Harriet is an online community for women of African ancestry. We encourage women, through storytelling and journalism, to engage in candid, revelatory dialogue about the beauty and complexity of Black womanhood. We aspire to educate, inspire, and entertain.
Dr. Linda Chavers on #BlackGirlMagic and the Article that Started a Firestorm
Note: This is such an important publication. Its content is always of the highest quality, really pushing readers to think--they also have a badass fashion sister site, Coloures, which is really cool (they really make fashion + beauty work well). All the content has a thread of power, opinion, race, society and gender. So smart.
WEIRD SISTER: WEIRD SISTER explores the intersections of feminism, literature and pop culture. We feature essays, interviews, comics, reviews, playlists, secret diaries, and love letters written in invisible ink.
Three Pieces of Feminist Advice From Jackie “Moms” Mabley
Note: We love the pop culture aspect of this site. It's always on-point. But the most rewarding thing about WEIRD SISTER is the rotation of voices: it's diverse, always sincere, and really fun to read.
Smarty Mommies: Smarty Mommies is a website dedicated to intelligently discussing the experience of being a smart, thinking mother.
There's Hope: Clothes for Girls
Note: Our staff isn't made up of moms over here, but we sure do appreciate reading Smarty Mommies because it is a progressive blog for mothers who want to shatter stereotypes and gender roles--something plenty of other parenting sites are ignoring. Not to mention, a few of our own writers/former staff work over there, and it's nice to watch them bring the badassery to others.
Autostraddle: Autostraddle is an intelligent, hilarious & provocative voice and a progressively feminist online community for a new generation of kickass lesbian, bisexual & otherwise inclined ladies (and their friends).
Rebel Girls: 9 Queer, Feminist, and/or Gender Theorists (Who Aren’t Judith Butler)
Note: Autostraddle is just the best site. Honestly, if you're ever looking to read progressive voices or you need to be reminded that humanity has a soul, this is the site for you. Every article is smart and fun and cool, like this one about Dana Scully, everyone's favorite investigator.
Lisa Marie Basile is a NYC-based writer and editor. She’s the founding editor-in-chief of Luna Luna Magazine and keeps a blog at Ingenuex.com. Her work has appeared in The Establishment, Bustle, Bust, Hello Giggles, The Gloss, xoJane, YourTango, Good Housekeeping, Redbook, and The Huffington Post, among other sites. She is the author of Apocryphal (Noctuary Press, Uni of Buffalo). Her work as a poet and editor have been featured in BuzzFeed, Amy Poehler’s Smart Girls, The New York Daily News, Ravishly and Bust. She currently works for Hearst Digital Media, where she edits for The Mix, their contributor network of more than 1000 writers. Previously, she was the director of content for a marketing platform, and a managing editor at a social content platform. She earned her Master's degree at The New School and attended Pace University for undergrad as well as Columbia University as one of 20 selected for an editorial workshop. She has spoken about writing or read her work at universities, such as NYU, Columbia and Emerson College.
Aela Labbe
How Can We Stop Heteronormative Parenting?
I’ve often wondered how to move away from heteronormative parenting. I want to give my kids choices — to leave room for them to be themselves, whoever that turns out to be. But it takes a conscious effort to back away from what I was raised with and what I see around me, from what is provided for us and staring us in the face. It requires forethought to present the alternatives.
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The Philadelphia Story (1940)
George Wakes Up
She stood there staring at him wide-eyed for so long that he felt his hands go clammy, realizing his mistake too late of having fecundated yet another triviality. Finally she let out a great horse whinny of a snort, rolled her large bright eyes exaggeratedly, and began to giggle uncontrollably. She spilled onto the floor in a fit of hysteric giggles, so tickled was she by this gesture of his, so transparent in meaning. She knew she ought to stop, so as to avoid hurting the man’s feelings further, but the fact that he had found this declaration worthy of rousing her from a most comfortable slumber allowed her a few giggles more, or so she reasoned.
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Photo by Tom Smith.
Am I A Real Writer Now?
Although I went to school for writing, ran a literary magazine at my college, and graduated with a BFA and a collection of short stories under my belt, I have always been hesitant to call myself a “writer.” If I ever did mention that I write, it was along with many qualifications… “I’m an executive assistant, but also I like to write, in my spare time,” or, “I have a writing degree, I don’t know if I’d call myself a writer…” et cetera.
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A LGBTQ Comic Book I'm Obsessed With: The Wicked + The Divine
My recent obsession with comic books may inconvenience my wallet, but has visually opened colorful, grandiloquent worlds for me. Already one of my favorite comic book publishers—Image Comics—recently released their collection of “Image Firsts” comics, reprints of popular and iconic comics for only $1 each. Among these is the first issue of my latest obsession: The Wicked + The Divine.
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