In Mandy De Sandra's first advice column installation, she will answer reader's questions about their ‘kinks’ and fantasies. Of course, Mandy will share personal advice and recommend a book to further explore their fantasy or fetish. Feel free to send a question via the form below.

Question: Mandy I have fantasies about spiders crawling on me while I touch myself. Is this weird? Should I ever try it?

Mandy: Spiders have a sexy strut don’t they. They are a very sexual being, they basically cum houses. These bukkake homemakers are sexy, and your fantasy is normal. I write a lot about creatures and naughty idea that are taboo, with common sense we can really fulfill our fantasies. I think a good golden rule is if I want to make the fantasy a reality and it involves another breathing being—I need to get permission.

I personally recommend the book “Arachnophile” about the lust for a spider. Through fiction and fantasy we can find ways to play out our fantasies. Books are good too cause you only need one hand.

- Mandy.

Mandy De Sandra is a Department of Labor worker by day but an erotica writer at night. Mandy is a #BizarroFiction#Erotica author, and more work can be read in Vice, The AVClub, Jezebel.